Cheaters, yeah, I know them so well. I had my moments with them. I thought I learned from the first one, until a better, more evolved cheater trapped me in his wiles again. After the second one, I swore I would be more careful and vigilant in looking out for cheaters. From that traumatic experience, I got ample ideas on how to spot a cheater. Here are some lessons I learned on how a cheater works.
- The cheater wants you to try something out. This may refer from your appearance, to your hobbies, to your sex act. When I first hooked-up with my ex, he used to love the simple ‘ol me, after a while, he suggested to have my belly-pieced.
He also wanted me to wear super-daring- fishnet- type outfits. Initially, I thought he was just joking. Then, I thought that maybe he just wanted to have something different in our relationship. Later on, I found- out he was fooling around with a stripper on the side. Yes, he did the “Sandra Bullock” on me.
And oh, yes, when it comes to our sex life, he suddenly had tons of ideas every day I can’t keep up.
- The cheater bans you in social media. Facebook and Twitter, everybody has one. When you are seeing a guy and is far beyond friendship, yet doesn’t accept you as his friend in Facebook, you need to be wary, because there’s something fishy going on.
- The cheater takes you only to specific places. I knew that something wasn’t right when my ex only takes me to covert places. Initially, I thought he just wanted to have some privacy, but I realized he doesn’t want someone he knows bumping into him and tell his girlfriend of eight years about it.
- The cheater RARELY answers your calls. He might call you, or text, but when you call him, he doesn’t answer immediately. If this happens most of the time, begin to seriously wonder why? What/who is he hiding? As for me, I found out he was hiding his other girlfriend.
- The cheater makes you his Last-minute lady. At firs, this may sound exciting- the late night dinners, the sudden lunch dates, his surprise appearance in your house. Being spontaneous can be really exciting, but when this goes on without him making any plans for you, then you need to ask where your relationship is going.
- The cheater doesn’t take you to his place. This may be awkward to expect this in the first few weeks of dating, but when you have been dating exclusively for months and he hasn’t take you to his place, consider it as a big, red warning flag!
- Watch out for a woman’s touch. So he took you to his place, you see a wonderful pink and red vases and rest room smells like a woman’s scent! If he's not cheating on you with another woman or living with his mother or sister, then consider these-- either he's gay or is living with one.
Wednesday, November 17, 2010
Reasons Why Single Women Go For Taken Men
Taken men are more prone to outside enticements, because of so many reasons. One of those reasons why men can’t keep their pants on is because some women have problems saying NO to them. One can’t help but wonder, what pathetic incident happened in a single woman’s life that made her go for taken-men? Being brought- up from a dysfunctional family perhaps? The need to get even after being cheated? Boredom? Well, whatever the reason is, it’s twisted and downright wrong. Still, we can’t deny the fact that single women with married men are a common scenario these days. For whatever it’s worth here are some common reasons why single women go for taken men.
The forbidden fruit syndrome. This started in a garden called Eden, where Eve, the first woman ever created sinks her teeth into the one piece of fruit that The Powerful Creator forbade to eat.
From this fateful incident, started a long line of women who can’t help themselves to get a bite of something forbidden. Until to this modern day, some women always want what they cannot have.
Ego inflator. There is nothing more ego boosting than knowing that you are irresistibly hot. And for some single women out there, the thought of a married man risking his years of relationship for one steamy night of sweltering sex with her makes her feel nothing more than the Goddess of Beauty herself.
“The Good Ones Are Taken” belief. Some twisted single ladies view taken men as parking spaces- the good and convenient ones are always taken.
These dumbass girls believe that uncommitted guys are single for a reason, therefore, believe that men who are spoken-for are worth going after.
The Challenge of it all. Some girls are just psychotic enough to see taken men as a challenge. They have guys surrounding them, pursuing them, but it’s just like bagging candies on Halloween. These girls want guys who are involved, in love and committed. The adrenaline rush of a man trying to fight-off her guile only makes her want him more. Simply put, they view all this as a sport.
Bullying. Some ladies are just mean to the core. They simply have it out for their own gender. These are the girls who bully other girls in grade school, they pull their pig-tails and take their lunch money, now they take their man.
Getting Even. Some girls are just damaged enough and think that having an affair with a married man will even out the score. These girls have been cheated several times and may have been rejected several times. These girls are clouded with bitterness and anger, and believes that if she can’t have a happy ending of her own, then nobody can.
The X-factor. You can’t deny the fact that taken men have that quiet confidence in them. They exude security and a sense of contentment. Moreover, taken men dress better, look better, and smell better, why wouldn’t they? They have a woman who takes care of them. And this quiet confidence and sense of security make them irresistible to the population of loose, damaged girls.
The forbidden fruit syndrome. This started in a garden called Eden, where Eve, the first woman ever created sinks her teeth into the one piece of fruit that The Powerful Creator forbade to eat.
From this fateful incident, started a long line of women who can’t help themselves to get a bite of something forbidden. Until to this modern day, some women always want what they cannot have.
Ego inflator. There is nothing more ego boosting than knowing that you are irresistibly hot. And for some single women out there, the thought of a married man risking his years of relationship for one steamy night of sweltering sex with her makes her feel nothing more than the Goddess of Beauty herself.
“The Good Ones Are Taken” belief. Some twisted single ladies view taken men as parking spaces- the good and convenient ones are always taken.
These dumbass girls believe that uncommitted guys are single for a reason, therefore, believe that men who are spoken-for are worth going after.
The Challenge of it all. Some girls are just psychotic enough to see taken men as a challenge. They have guys surrounding them, pursuing them, but it’s just like bagging candies on Halloween. These girls want guys who are involved, in love and committed. The adrenaline rush of a man trying to fight-off her guile only makes her want him more. Simply put, they view all this as a sport.
Bullying. Some ladies are just mean to the core. They simply have it out for their own gender. These are the girls who bully other girls in grade school, they pull their pig-tails and take their lunch money, now they take their man.
Getting Even. Some girls are just damaged enough and think that having an affair with a married man will even out the score. These girls have been cheated several times and may have been rejected several times. These girls are clouded with bitterness and anger, and believes that if she can’t have a happy ending of her own, then nobody can.
The X-factor. You can’t deny the fact that taken men have that quiet confidence in them. They exude security and a sense of contentment. Moreover, taken men dress better, look better, and smell better, why wouldn’t they? They have a woman who takes care of them. And this quiet confidence and sense of security make them irresistible to the population of loose, damaged girls.
Hair Cuts: Deciding On The Greatest Hair Style For Your Face And Life-style by: Andy Guides Jr
There is no easier way to change your appearance than to update or change your hairstyle. Hair cuts designed to flatter your face and complement your life style can change how you feel about yourself. For each face type, there are some general guidelines to consider. You, however, must make the final decision.
An oval shaped face can be quite easy to flatter. This shape has many choices available. Most guides suggest you keep the hair an even length with no layers or high volume. Wispy bangs are also an option. This shape is so versatile that almost any style will work if you make sure to highlight your best features.
The round face is often problematic for some people, but there are options that can flatter your face. You do not want any cut that will emphasize the fullness of the face. Whether your hair is long or short, layers can help minimize the roundness. Keep the hair off the face and try to emphasize your eyes and cheekbones. Some stylists suggest keeping the hair just below the chin and including tapered ends.
With a square face you might want to consider bangs that are short and straight. Do not cut the hair too short, and consider adding length to the sides and back with layers to add volume to the face. Some of the trendy spiky cuts, or a cut with curls on the ends can be flattering for this face.
The heart face looks best with hair beneath the jaw line. Do not use layers or short cuts with this structure. Side swept bangs can help reduce the emphasis of the pointed chin.
A long face can be complimented by having the bangs go all the way to the tip of the eyebrows. Curls and layering the sides without too much volume will help to shorten the face.
Along with your facial structure, you must also decide the general feel you want for your hair. Will you need a more formal or informal look? The way you live and work can help you decide. Usually when preparing for a prom or wedding, formal styles are best. If you are a casual, sporty individual, informal styles might be your best choice.
Your stylist can be an excellent resource when deciding on your best style. If however, you do not like any of her suggestions, do not feel obligated to go with her choice. You know what will be most comfortable for you. Consider using an Internet site that allows you to virtually look at various styles. Some have your facial structure and others allow you to download a photograph. This can help you decide if the look is appropriate for you.
In the long run, the only one who can decide which hair cuts work best for you is you. If you like it and feel comfortable with it, that is all that matters. If you should get a cut that you do not like, remember it will grow out.
An oval shaped face can be quite easy to flatter. This shape has many choices available. Most guides suggest you keep the hair an even length with no layers or high volume. Wispy bangs are also an option. This shape is so versatile that almost any style will work if you make sure to highlight your best features.
The round face is often problematic for some people, but there are options that can flatter your face. You do not want any cut that will emphasize the fullness of the face. Whether your hair is long or short, layers can help minimize the roundness. Keep the hair off the face and try to emphasize your eyes and cheekbones. Some stylists suggest keeping the hair just below the chin and including tapered ends.
With a square face you might want to consider bangs that are short and straight. Do not cut the hair too short, and consider adding length to the sides and back with layers to add volume to the face. Some of the trendy spiky cuts, or a cut with curls on the ends can be flattering for this face.
The heart face looks best with hair beneath the jaw line. Do not use layers or short cuts with this structure. Side swept bangs can help reduce the emphasis of the pointed chin.
A long face can be complimented by having the bangs go all the way to the tip of the eyebrows. Curls and layering the sides without too much volume will help to shorten the face.
Along with your facial structure, you must also decide the general feel you want for your hair. Will you need a more formal or informal look? The way you live and work can help you decide. Usually when preparing for a prom or wedding, formal styles are best. If you are a casual, sporty individual, informal styles might be your best choice.
Your stylist can be an excellent resource when deciding on your best style. If however, you do not like any of her suggestions, do not feel obligated to go with her choice. You know what will be most comfortable for you. Consider using an Internet site that allows you to virtually look at various styles. Some have your facial structure and others allow you to download a photograph. This can help you decide if the look is appropriate for you.
In the long run, the only one who can decide which hair cuts work best for you is you. If you like it and feel comfortable with it, that is all that matters. If you should get a cut that you do not like, remember it will grow out.
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